A friend recently joked to me about how people sometimes resort to “alternative facts” when it comes to their money.
And it’s true. They tell themselves falsehoods, such as: “I’m not really responsible for a loan if I co-sign.” Or: “I can afford this new car loan because I’m going to cut my spending.”
In case you’re unfamiliar with the reference, it came from White House counselor Kellyanne Conway, who was responding to criticism that President Trump’s press secretary, Sean Spicer, had overstated the inaugural crowd size. Conway said Spicer was merely presenting “alternative facts.”
Many people find themselves in trouble because of “alternative” financial facts. So I asked my Facebook followers to weigh in on the financial lies they’ve told themselves over the years.
Here are some of the alternative facts I received:
It’s not imperative that you buy life insurance for children, says James Hunt, a retired life insurance actuary who assists the Consumer Federation of America on life insurance issues.
“Of course, children don’t need life insurance, which is rebutted by agents who’ll argue that it preserves insurability in case of a medical incident, a very low likelihood,” Hunt said. And he added: “Sales costs are usually disproportionately high for the need.”
More importantly, the main reason to buy life insurance is income replacement. Unless your child is supporting the family, you’re better off putting money in a 529 college-savings plan.
Online lender iLoan surveyed 800 people last July about borrowing money from family and friends. The top reasons for the loans were for educational needs, basic necessities (food, water, electricity) or to buy or fix a car.
But the survey found that 36 percent of family and friend lenders weren’t paid back all their money. Fourteen percent never got any money back.
Just don’t do it. If you have the money and you don’t need it back, just give it to the person. This way, your family member or friend won’t be tempted to lie about their inability to pay you back.
People see the vacation as an escape. But don’t give in to this sense of entitlement. When you get back, your money problems will still be there – only now you’ve added to the stress by piling on more debt.
Visa found in a 2015 nationwide survey that respondents spent an average of $53 a week, or $2,746 per year, on lunch.
Stop lying to yourself. Find your financial truth and you’ll see some enriching results.
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